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I have created this website as a last resort, and decided to go public with this issue because private diplomacy has not worked. Chipo Siamafuwa is from Kafue, Zambia. She is an immigrant to Canada, arriving in Canada on Feb 2018, and is possibly residing in Fort McMurray or in Edmonton. After I had been supporting her financially fpr the three years while she was in Zambia awaiting to come to Canada, and after the expense of hiring an immigration agency and the cost of the trip and other expenses, and now that she has Canadian citizenship and a healthy son, she has no further need for me so she dumps me but stays in Canada to provide a good life for herself and her family back in Zambia, after she promised to return to Zambia with me where I was making provisions for her here. She married me for the purpose of obtaining a better life for herself and her family in Zambia, not because she loves me. I met with her mother in Kafue who showed no interest in us being together as a family here in Zambia, because if this happened (I have already made provisions for her here in Zambia) her family here in Zambia wd not be able to benefit financially from me here. Follow the money (and the sperm).
In the following audio recording she agrees that it is her alone that wants to leave me, and not me who wants leave her (or ever wanted to leave her), and she also states that it is wrong for her to take my son away from me on Oct 1 then two weeks later she denies having said it. Oct 14
The following are chat messages from Jan 13, 2024:
In
this chat session she is clearly desiring to further use me to get
sperm, but refuses to have me in her life any more, nor wants me as the
father to my own children. Yet she denies that this is using
me. She will "find another way" (find another man to use him
also for his sperm, and commit adultery against me.) I wd only have consented to
another child if it was produced out a loving and caring relationship
in which we remain together as a loving and caring family, and I as the
father I am raising my own children. This is the "bigger picture. Am I
to be expected to give sperm artificially to create another baby whom I
will be deprived of?
She states that she wants another baby (which I wd be deprived of) yet she has also spread lies about me that I was not (in Canada) providing for her and my son. Now consider that she has been caught in a lie because how is it that she wants another baby from me if I was not providing for the baby (my son) that she already has? So hypothetically if one son is suffering from not having enuff, then will she make two children suffer even worse that one alone? It wd be wrong for her to bring 2d baby into the world if there is no adequate provisions even for the first one. Then in that case it is her who is guilty of making the second child suffer and the first child suffering worse. The lie that I was not providing is a diversion from the real issue. And this is why her threat of taking legal action against me for defamation are just an empty threat because she is afraid of a court trial because the real truth wd come out and it wd be an embarrassment to her showing that she is the one who has defamed me by spreading lies about me. So bring on the defamation trial and lets have all the dirt come out into the open, and bring in the newspaper reporters and the TV camera crews and let the evidence speak for itself.
She
has taken my son Asher away from me, as is she owns him (see
also Asher.Africa)
and she uses him as a weapon against me. She uses the police as a
threat because in Canada all a woman has to do is call the police with
a false accusation and the police automatically arrest him and he goes
to jail. On
this audio clip from Oct 9th, 2023
she admits to threatening me, then apologizes, yet she continues with
her threats and extortion to this day. She deprives me of my son and
deprives my son of his father.
On Jan 2d on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my
heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was
only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but
was forced out by her threats and extortion). I am not allowed to talk
with my son any more. I have created this website partly in defense of
myself, and partly in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his
father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out
for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him
taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also
loves,needs, and misses his father.
Chipo
knows that the police in Canada automatically take the side of the
woman, and she knows that the courts in Canada are biased towards women
and against men, and she takes full advantage of this knowledge. She
holds all the cards. The court is entirely her idea. I have never said
anything about courts because I have never entertained the idea of
separation or divorce or of splitting up the family. This is entirely a
one-sided idea of hers, yet she makes I look like a two sided idea that
"we" go to court. She likes the courts for the simple reason that
courts (in Canada) always rule in favour of the woman. Another problem
here is that many people believe that if something is legal it is also
morally right. Chipo wants her wrong intentions and wrong actions to be
agreed with by the court to make her wrongness become "right" (in her
own eyes). To have a court rubber-stamp its approval of her wrongful
actions as being "legal" does not change the fact that what she is
doing is morally wrong, and I will have no part of this. If she goes to
court for the purpose of "separation" or "divorce", she does so
alone.
She has also committed theft of my property which she had at her place
and which she refuses to allow me to access. (if it is even all there
any more)
My position has been consistent right from the start in that it is
wrong to break up a family, and that when a man and woman make a
commitment, they need to keep it. A commitment is a commitment is a
commitment. I have never once even suggested the possibility of leaving
her. The issue here is that of maturity and responsibility. It is a
serious thing to make a commitment to someone of the opposite sex. If
we are not honest about it and have the right motives, and do not
intend to keep it, then we shd not have made that commitment in the
first place. In the following example the circumstances are different,
but the principle involved is the same. Try borrowing money from a bank
then unilaterally decidng that you want to break the commitment to pay
it back, and see what happens! Yet people do not take seriously the
commitment that they make to the opposite sex, and they avoid their
responsibility to follow thru with it. The fact is that they were not
commited in the first place. They cannot blame anyone else for this,
any more than someone can blame the bank for them not paying back their
loan. It's an issue of honesty, responsibility, maturity, integrity,
and correct or incorrect motives.
The common understanding of marriage is wrong. In reality marriage does
not exist. Let me explain: Supposing that I get a loan from the bank,
then later I go to a judge and ask him to cancel my commitment to the
bank to pay back the money. Of course a judge will not do this, yet
courts do this for marriage to allow people to avoid their commitments.
A marriage cannot exist because if it can be voided, then there is
nothing binding it together and therefore it cannot exist, any more
than a loan agreement can exist if it is not binding and a judge can
simply void it. Banks wd stop borrowing money. The coming together of a
man and woman is in reality based purely on the honesty, character,
integrity, maturity, and responsibility of each. A "marriage" is only a
piece of paper and has no value. The only thing that has value is the
character, integrity, maturity, and responsibility of the man and
woman. I only went thru with the legal procedure to "marry" Chipo
because it was a requirement to bring her to Canada.
When anyone breaks a commitment they have no one to blame but
themselves, despite hiding behind excuses or legal "reasons". A judge
can declare that a woman can murder her baby, but does that make it
right? A judge can declare that at school dances (as in the case now in
Canada) that a boy can dance with a boy and a girl dance with a girl,
and that a man can marry a man and a woman marry a woman, but does that
make it right? We have to get away from this idea that anything that is
legal is also right, and that the courts are "God's servants" which is
a wrong teaching of Christianity (read Romans chapter 13).
Please assist me by letting her family know that they shd encourage
Chipo to do what is right. They are based on the family farm (headed by
Chipo's mother Jane) which is a 1 hectare farm just off the highway a
few miles south of Kafue. It is past Chita Lodge, going south, and on
the left hand side, not on, but close to the highway. It is immediately
on the other side of the power lines, and is near the Kafue Boys School
(on the south/southwest side of it). You can also contact Chipo by
email csiamafuwa@yahoo.com, by phone (+1) 780-531-7603
and encourage her to do what is right. She is also on Whats App, IMO,
and Facebook (she may change her phone number, WhatsApp, IMO, and
Facebook accounts after this.) Your help is appreciated. Thank you!
As my son Asher will have his 4th birthday on April 24, 2024, I have
been denied the blessing of being with him on his birthday, and further
I cannot even send him a birthday gift because I am not even told where
he (they) are staying. It's the "golden rule": He who has all the gold
makes all the rules. Asher and me have been totally cut off from each
other. What she has done is wrong. Our family shd not have been broken
apart. It needs to be reunited, but in peace, caring, and love . Please
contact her and let her know that you dissaprove of her
behaviour.
I will never cease to defend my son Asher, who is suffering the worst in all this.
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These figures were arrived at by myself based on her approximate income. I was conservative in my estimate so as not to get an inflated amount in the results, and based it on only 35 hours per week,and only getting the minimum wage (She may have gotten a raise by now because she has been there for a few years). In May 2024 she is applying for a subsidy from the Canadian governement. The amount of this subsidy is about $12,682. She can only obtain this amount if she states that she is separated. In Canada "separation" can not only be as a legal status, but also if a couple is living separate from each other, without any legal declaration or papers. This is another reason why she did not want to live with me me Canada, because otherwise she wd not have qualified for this money. Her family here in Zambia is expecting her to provide money for them, and this explains why she refuses to return to Zambia to live with me here, because she kows that I wd not be supporting her relatives here and she wd have no way of doing so herself from Zambia. Is it not unusual behaviour that a Zambian woman who has given birth in Canada refuses to return to Zambia even just to let her (Chipo's) mother meet her grand son? Also all of her other family members also wd want to meet him?
Furthermore, no subsidy is needed because I have already provided for her and Asher, but she has run away from me, but that is beside the point here. But again, she wd not be getting this subsidy if she had stayed with me. I hope that the Government of Canada does not approve the subsidy application.